What Does The Name “CAL” means:  


The name Means:

You are a world improver, your name is not common, as you are not a common person, you are exotic, a philanthropist, a dreamer. You’re an incorrigible benevolent person. The people around you have their faith restored in the humanity thanks to you.

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Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire
Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire
Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire
Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire
Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire
Coachingandlife.com is an online coaching forum to support people achieve their goals and desire

Design your way

Make it happen to make the difference you need in order to make it happen, only you can do, only you know what it requires to make it happen. Within coaching, we believe that each goal or outcome starts with the

Congruence, you need to be congruent with what you want.

Positively stated, it must be positively formulated, you cannot not think about a pink elephant

Resourced and realistic, you must have or acquire the resources you need

Initiated and maintained by yourself, you need to ask yourself do you have what it takes

Ecological is must be positive and ecological

Evidence criteria, how will you know that you have achieved your goal or outcome

Time-phased, make a time line that is realistic and remember a dream that has no deadline is a wish.

Coaching is about the outcome, it is about, what we value and what we want to accomplice. Whatever you focus on, is what you get. You will properly say, that this is not true, then with within CAL ask you, if you focus on something do you not get it? yes, we all do.

Why Join CAL

Use your voice to be vocal to heal yourself, when we talk, write and hear ourselves, we too hear where we are. We do

There is a huge difference between talking to friends, family and get the input, the knowledge from someone you do not know.

This is a wake-up call.

Remember it is only words, and no one knows anything about your life, what you have been through and where you are going. Use CAL to challenge, to grow, to be better at what you already KNOW so much of.

You are the expert in your life.

You know inside out,

You need to trust your knowledge, try and do for this reason we use CALit is not public, for this reason, it is for you that are willing to make the choice to choose.

We all have trouble, issues in life and there is always someone who has tried something worse and done it better.

The fact is it is not what we meet, it is how we handle it. That helps us move on.

Use it and live life to the full.


To use the opportunity to discover yourself, to reach out for the journey you want and join others for which your feedback and knowledge makes a difference, most of us learn, when we are in an environment, where we all are learning, where we all are students or all teachers. We are all excellent in something, and when we use those powers and help, support each other, we express ourselves and we discover our own voice,

A coach learns when practicing, here we get to practice a lot, we seek to help each other, notice this is not for one to one coaching. We are all in CAL. Here you see the work of other coaches, you have the opportunity to hear from several other coaches, facts are, a good coaching gives the result, here you will discover your own voice, understand your talent in areas, and you will get the feedback you never dreamed of.

Hear your own voice and express yourself as you or as a coach.

Cal is about you finding your voice, you being vocal, you finding your right way and journey. We learn when we are interactive, a teacher is learning while teaching, a student is learning when practicing, or teaching all goes into one circle, this is also how we improve, are creative, move on, we circle, we analyze, we look and we move on when we are ready. When we are where we want to be.

Cal is about you learning, growing, about your discovering your own talents, wisdom, and opportunities.

With respect, we recognize and create ways for each other to hear and give a voice to all five parts of our nature

Physically, mentally emotionally, socially, spiritually – we seek to be our best

The reason, why it is good to talk about the outcome instead of a goal is because the outcome has the consequences involved, this is sometimes where we are not aligned or congruent with our outcome or goal, think about below for a second: #Think about the following from the book – the 8th habit.(page 79):

Wealth without work

Pleasure without conscience

Knowledge without character

Commerce without morality

Science without humanity

Workship with sacrifice

Politics without principle

“A new philosophy, a new way of life is not given for nothing. It has to be paid dearly for and only acquired with much patience and great effort” – by Fyodor Dostoevsky.#

  • We can even add a few more to the list:
  • Overweight without food
  • Strong body without excise

Alcoholic without alcohol – that is the simplest one and easy for us all to understand, the fact is that we as humans are complex and nothing is the same. Why am I not where I want to be, why do I think it needs to be different? There is something inside you that is so strong that and you have to reach out for it. Then you know, then you can make the difference to achieve your outcome. You are willing to do what it takes.

That is why it is very important to each one of us, that we know that we get what we focus on, there is a lesson here if we want to – if you do not want what you have, you need to change, you need to focus on something else, do it differently.

In all our doings in life, if we look at the feedback we get then the feedback will tell you if you are going in the right direction, where you want to be.

Coaching is a powerful tool, – how to make it happen, this does not mean,  that if you know coaching, that it will happen. Coaching is tools for changes and new doings brings new outcome – and Only you can make it happen, bring the new way into your life – and it is all your doing that will make it happen. All is solely for you, what you do and the outcome you get.

You will have to use your capabilities and look within you to find the motivation and enthusiasm to make it happen. You will on the journey be challenged by the most powerful person you know, yourself. You will need to take care of all the inner changes, that are being challenged, supported, changed for you to go towards your new outcome, unsafe territory and on this journey, you must stay congruent. To stay congruent is to love, believe, be aware and trust yourself, that you have chosen an outcome, that will make you an even better you.

This is why –  we have the forum, the blog, and this is what we believe.

You can do it and you can make a difference in your life. You already know it. You just have to do it.

In the different memberships, you work differently, within me-members you tell your story to seek, support, and help each other in life, to be who we want to be, and to understand what is happening in our lives –  our outcomes in life.

Within the my-members, we focus on the different skills and doings where we see life coaching’s techniques as wisdom to find the outcome we are seeking, we use wisdom, of skills or mentor skills. Skills and know-how from all levels in life. We help, support each other to know life skills on all levels in life. From our wisdom, we act as we have learned and know how. So new learnings brings new doings that gives new results

Within ByInvitationOnly-member, we mix our life stories with our wisdom and knowledge, we use them both, we use our lives, our skills, knowledge to whom we are and what we do, how do I use my person best way, we look at best practice. We challenge each other for higher levels.