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Bryan C DunnProven winners?
Who are the proven winners, what what do they all have in common that you do not see or notice.
Proven winners knows what he wants.
The one thing proven winners have in common is their inner focus on what they want in their life. They do not spend 2 seconds thinking about other people, and what they want need and desire. They focus, they have a silient focus to to hold their energy to own accomplicements.
You love to share you life:
No, they are the silient listener, the proven winners do not share their challenges, strenght and weakness. The proven winners will listen to your life, and you feel they are your best friend. They do not interfear, nor do they challenge your oppion they will listen, and they will learn the best from you.
Involvement and sharing.
No, they listen, and you are welcome to tell, share and shape your life to your own needs.
Proven winners know their focus.
They are the best of friends and you feel so good when you are among them. It is happy times, because they leave you along and it is easy to be among them. They are the proven winners.
Why now – why change it
You need to focus on your own life, your performance results and outcomes. Why like a post of someone you do not even know? why give your preasure energy and life to people who never supports you? Why now – because it is time to ris to become the person you really are.
It’s your life and it is about how you manage to become among the proven winners.
Feel the feeling of proven winners.
Close your eyes, and say >> I did it >>
Take a moment and listen to yourself when you say within, I dit it. Say it again >> I did it – again I did it.
Success is not something you can share, it is a feeling of feeling the power of the times where you centered the energy and kept your focus to yourself.
It’s the moments when
A friend tells your about problems and you take the time to listen, and listen without losing your focus to your goals.
You want to lose your temper and tell someone off, but chooses to listen.
Family needs your help and support and instead of saying no, you just do it.
It’s all the hours you gain because your focus is on what you want to achieve, no distraction and interfearing into your way to the goals. You have a clear mind set to reach the goal.
Proven winners are all about energy and focus.
See where you are and get there.
Dreams do come true to proven winnners, are you one?
The problems are:
It’s hard to listen to friends, family and partner and not wanting to achieve for them and with them. It is hard to not spend energy and effort into how they can do it, improve their way.
When you help everyone a little you end up helping for nothing. Your part is so little that in the end it makes no difference, the only one who spends time and effort on it is you.
Waste time.
Case, I use to help everyone, if someone asked me for support and help. Yes, I can do, let me help do the cooking, the cleaning, the moving, the painting and at the end of the day. I had more on my plate, who did I not fulfill task for – me.
I did not support me, I never looked into what I looked like, how I talked and with whom I was. I helped and the more people I helped the more came. It was free, my time was free.
But my time is not free, and you can say I was naive, I gave it away, they did not even have to ask. I was proud, when I knew – I will help you do it.
The facts are:
Had it been my profession, and focus was to improve my way for me, grow and create the life I wanted and needed, it would all have been okay.
But it is even worse – I gave time away for free.
Time is not free, your time is very limited and how you spend is how proven winners show up.
The pitch – for proven winners are – focus on what you want in your life.
