What do you need?
We learn when we practice. At CAL we practice a lot, this is why we are here, to practice.
We seek to help each other, notice this is not for one to one coaching.
We are all in CAL. Here you see the work of others, you have the opportunity to hear from several others, facts are, good life coaching gives result, here you will discover your own voice, understand your talent in areas, and you will get feedback you never dreamed of.
Hear your own voice and express yourself as you are.
Cal is about you finding your voice, you being vocal, you finding your right way and journey.
We learn, when we interact, a teacher is learning while teaching, a student is learning when practicing, or teaching.
All goes in circle, this is also how we improve, are creative, move on, we circle, we analyze, we look and we move on, when we are ready.
We are, where we want to be.
Cal is about you learning, growing, about your discovering your own talents, wisdom and opportunities.
With respect we recognize and create ways for each other to hear and give a voice to all five parts of our nature
Physically, mentally emotionally, socially, spiritually
In the forum “by invitation only”, you use and learn, teach, analyze the techniques and challenges in life, gathering my-members and me-members at any time.
CAL is an open forum where skills and know how is exchanged for improvement for each one of us. We help upgrade knowhow. We open up for new knowledge and usage to achieve better results; this is about making a difference- it is about improvements.
Design your way.
Make it happen, make the difference you need in order to make it happen
Only you can do it, only you know what it requires to make it happen. Within life coaching, we believe that each goal or outcome start with the:
Congruence, you need to be congruent with what you want.
Positively stated, it is necessary, that it is formulated positively, that is what you will work to achieve.
Resourced and realistic, you must have or acquire the resources your need
Initiated and maintained by yourself, you need to ask yourself, do you have what it takes, are you willing to do it?
Ecological, is must be positive and ecological
Evidence criteria, how will you know, that you have achieved your goal or outcome?
Time phased, make a time line, that is realistic, and remember a dream that has no deadline is just a wish.
Life Coaching is about outcome.
It is about, what we value and what we want to accomplice.
Whatever you focus on, is what you get.
You will properly say, that this is not true.
CAL asks you, how can you focus on something and NOT get it, if you focus on it, you will get it
This is for sure.
The reason, why it is good to talk about outcome instead of goals is. Because outcome has the consequences involved, this is where we are not aligned or congruent with our outcome of a goal.
Think about below for a second:
#Think about the following from the book – the 8th habit.( page 79):
Wealth without work
Pleasure without conscience
Knowledge without character
Commerce without morality
Science without humanity
Workship without sacrifice
Politics without principle
“A new philosophy a new way of life, is not given for nothing. It has to be paid dearly for and only acquired with much patience and great effort” – by Fyodor Dostoevsky”
We can even add a few more to the list:
Overweight without food
Strong body without excise
Alcoholic without alcohol.
That is the simplest one and easy for us all to understand, fact is, that we as humans are complex and nothing is simple.
Why am I not where I want to be, why do I think it needs to be different?
There is something inside,that is so strong that and you have to reach out for it.
Then you know, then you can make the difference to achieve your outcome. You are willing to do what it takes.
Because of the consequence,
That is why it is very important to each one of us, that we know that we get what we focus on, there is a lesson here if we want to – if you do not want, what you have, you need to change, you need to focus on something else, you need to do it differently.
In all our doings in life, we look at the feedback we get, the feedback will tell you if you are going in the right direction, where you want to be.
Life Coaching is a powerful tool to learn how to make it happen, this does not mean, that if you know life coaching, that it will happen.
Only you can make it happen, and it is all your doing, that will make it happen.
You will have to use your capabilities and look within you to find the motivation and enthusiasm to make it happen.
You will; On the journey be challenged by the most powerful person, you know, yourself.
You will need to take care of all the inner changes, that are being challenged, supported, or changed for you to go toward to your new outcome.
You will face unsafe territory and on this journey you must stay congruent. To stay congruent is to love, believe, be aware and trust yourself. You have chosen an outcome that will make you an even better.
The forum, the blog this is what we believe.
You can do it and you can make a difference in your life. You already know it. You just have to do it.
In the different memberships you work differently, find the membership where you want to be.