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COACHINGANDLIFE FOR RPL


Life takes us strange places, we see and hear things, life changes all the time and the skills, that is needed  follow too.

As “coco Chanel said ” – in order to be irreplaceable you must be different.

or in order to be treated the same you must be treated differently. How do I understand – what does other see, when they look at me.

I measure myself on my intentions – but I measure others on their results.

Discover and understand, teach and learn. Many people learn while teaching others, many find the knowledge in the doing. In CAL in by invitation only we share to improve – we engage in what we do, we seek feed-back and you are active.


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Be the inspiration
Help others
Seek to discover

By invitation only,  we walk the talk, we help each other to be our best self. We learn from the stories and topics we bring to the forum. Here it is the hole challenge you as a person the tools – the two in one. Make a difference for yourself and others.

Walk the talk.



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As a member of by invitation only

you engage, you learn, you grow, your focus is on know how, skills, knowledge and awareness.

With the wish to take the opportunity to discover yourself, to reach out for the journey you want

and to join others for which your feedback and knowledge makes a difference.

Most of us learn, when we are in an environment, where we all are learning,

A life coach learns when practicing, here we get to practice a lot, we seek to help each other, notice this is not for one to one coaching. Here you will discover your own voice, understand your talent in areas, and you will get feedback you never dreamed of.

Hear your own voice and express yourself.

Cal is about you finding your voice, you being vocal, finding your right way and journey. Cal is about you learning, growing, about your discovering your own talents, wisdom and opportunities.

With respect we recognize and create ways and we give a voice to all five parts of our nature

Physically, mentally emotionally, socially, spiritually

In the forum by invitation only, you use all of yourself.

CAL is an open forum where skills and know how is exchanged for improvement for each one of us. We help upgrade know how. We open up for new knowledge and usage to achieve better results, this is about making a difference- it is about improvements.

Design your way.

Make it happen make the difference you need in order to make it happen, only you can do, only you know what it requires to make it happen:.

We start with:

Congruence, you need to be congruent with what you want.

Positively stated, it must be positively formulated, you cannot not think about a pink elephant

Resourced and realistic, you must have or acquire the resources your need

Initiated and maintained by yourself, you need to ask yourself do you have what it takes

Ecological, is must be positive and ecological

Evidence criteria, how will you know that you have achieved your goal or outcome

Time phased, make a time line that is realistic, and remember a dream that has no deadline is a wish.

Coaching is about outcome, it is about, what we value and what we want to accomplice.

Whatever you focus on, is what you get.

Why it is good to talk about outcome instead of a goal is because outcome has the consequences involved, this is some time where we are not aligned or congruent with our outcome or goal think about below for a second: #Think about the following from the book – the 8th habit.( page 79):

Wealth without work

Pleasure without conscience

Knowledge without character

Commerce without morality

Science without humanity

Workship with sacrifice

Politics without principle

“A new philosophy a new way of life, is not given for nothing. It has to be paid dearly for and only acquired with much patience and great effort” – by Fyodor Dostoevsky.#

We can even add a few more to the list:

Overweight without food

Strong body without excise

Alcoholic without alcohol – that is the simplest one and easy for us all to understand, fact is that we as humans are complex and nothing is the same. Why am I not where I want to be, why do I think it needs to be different? There is something inside you that is so strong that and you have to reach out for it. Then you know, then you can make the difference to achieve your outcome. You are willing to do what it takes.

That is why it is very important to each one of us, that we know that we get what we focus on, there is a lesson here if we want to – if you do not want what you have, you need to change, you need to focus on something else, do it differently.

In all our doings in life, if we look at the feedback we get then the feedback will tell you if you are going in the right direction, where you want to be.

Coaching is a powerful tool to make learn how to make it happen, this does not mean that if you know coaching that it will happen. Only you can make it happen, and it is all your doing, that will make it happen.

You will have to use your capabilities and look within you to find the motivation and enthusiasm to make it happen. You will on the journey be challenged by the most powerful person you know, yourself. You will need to take care of all the inner changes that are being challenged, supported, changed for you to go towards your new outcome, unsafe territory and on this journey you must stay congruent. To stay congruent is to love, believe, aware and trust yourself that you have choose and outcome that will make you an even better and that you have what it takes.

This is why we have the forum, the blog, and this is what we believe. You can do it and you can make a difference in your life. You already know it. You just have to do it.

In the different memberships you work differently,

By invitation only-members uses the life stories and life tools and knowledge to help each other with all we can. The outcome you want, the feeling you want how do you achieve it.

What can you do in your situation.

What is wise to do.

By invitation only  uses both ME and MY, we use our lives, our skills, knowledge to whom we are, how do I use my person best way, we look at best practice. We challenge each other for higher levels.


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By invitation only focus is on whole you, how you see it, how you feel, your know how, skills, knowledge and awareness.

In the dialog or forums for by invitation only you seek to improve for higher levels.

CAL is an open forum where skills and know how is exchanged for improvement for each one of us. We help upgrade know how. We open up for new knowledge and usage to achieve and better results, this is about making a difference- it is about improvements and making it happen.

CAL is not for one to one sessions

 

Key words are:

Difference

Together we make a difference by this we mean through acceptance, challenge, value and level, we allow ourselves to be challenged, and improve our skills in a good and positive way.

We aim and seek to make a difference by learning how to be better.

We listen, we hear and we use our skill to move forward in the right direction, only you know your goals/ outcome in life.

Here you are not alone; here you can bring your life in front and get right help and support for others. Bring your knowledge forward.

Acceptance

We accept each another, we are our best, where we are, and we know, we all do the best we can, the best we know today.

Tomorrow is a new day and we as we grow and learn we do even better than today, if we need more skills, more knowledge to do better, we work through and support each another.

We are here because we want to, and because we want to do it better and make a difference.

Here you are vocal and you matter. Life can be hard and unfair; through CAL we have each other.

The major value in life is not, what you get. The major value in life is what you become. – Jim Rohn –

Challenge

Who can tell you what is right and what is wrong in your life, and what you need to change in order to get the right balance, only you,

Here in CAL we challenge and ask each other questions, here you have the opportunity to be challenged by people you would never meet. This alone is a great benefit and asset.

Think about it –

Do not wish, it was easier, wish you were better. Do not with for less problems, wish for more skills. Do not wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.  – Jim Rohn –

We challenge each other in a good way, making a difference in a positive way, though our commitment our acceptance through it is all, we stay together.

Value

We value, that another person STOPs for a moment, and takes the time to listen to me.

Takes the time to hear my story, my challenges, my weakness or strengths. We value the things we can read here, and learn from, we treat it right.

We value, what we do, we value all the feedback and support, we are the difference.

We standby one another.

Success is not to be pursued,

it is to be attracted by the person you become – Jim Rohn –

Level

Level is balance in all we do. We seek and keep the right level, we are all different, and seek different things is life, therefore each of us seek our right level ~ balance.

We keep balance – the right level – the right form, the right way, we are polite, we are nice, we keep the level.

 

This is not a place for dirt, down talk or to cuss about bad habits, debate, down talk, cuss at the world, this is not a place to talk bad about anyone, this is not a place, where you are not responsible, and this is not a place for blame.

This is a place, where we with respect for whatever subject use our skills and we in a good manner use our knowledge to make a difference. We take responsibility for what we do. We make a difference in what we do.

As a By invitation only member, you are responsible and you do the right thing, here is it always okay to seek advice, help and support.

By invitation only members, it is the tools and topics we bring forward,

We can tell our story, our learning and our understanding, which we hope can be of knowledge to others, by invitation only is a best practice a light of making a difference.

By invitation only members walk the talk.