About us

Coachingandlife for RPL

Our vision is that our members get a place to

Tell, Share & Shape life

Whom you talk to has direct impact on your mind and behavior – ” because of CAL  – what you have here,

you did not give up” Together we make a difference  – it is




CAL is Founded by Life Coach Berit Ladefoged – Dunedin – FL


About us

CAL is a forum a network about life, life on every level and for all of us, this is a place where we all can meet with one thing in mind, we want to make it better, it is about being our best, it is a place where we help each other to get and create the lives we each want to live.

We do this in a proper manner and therefore all questions all answers are for this world to be a better place, this is about how each one of us, gets a better day. All wished must be formulated in a positive way,

How we reach out for one another and how we manage to navigate. We make a difference in all we do, and this network is for you that wants to learn, develop, grow, improve and be a part of a Network, that for you will make a change, a difference, if you decide to join, we ask that you take an active role improve, help and ask for advice and wisdom, you are not alone and your voice and skills are needed.Join us and make a difference for yourself.


CAL Is a Tool Where We Shape Life

Who we talk to gives us inspirationand divine influence directly and immediately exerted upon the mind or soul

In the forum we TELL, SHARE & SHAPE our life

My wish is that you will shape your stones in life

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CAL stands for Coaching And Life

We use coaching for sports and coaching for the most important thing our lives is not that common, we are all mentors, we all have knowledge, wisdom, and awareness, this can be at different points of life or areas.

In CAL we share to know – that is in ME, and in CAL we share our knowledge this is in MY and if we want to combine the ME and MY, then CAL offers By invitation only, which is a place where we challenge our life stories and results.

The name CAL Means:

You are a world improver, your name is not common, as you are not a COMMON PERSON, you are exotic, a philanthropist, a dreamer. You’re an incorrigible benevolent person. The people around you have their faith restored in the humanity thanks to you, the way you are.

Just what we want this site to be, a place to make dreams come true, a place for all, we are not common, we want to improve our lives and we want a place to keep our faith in the humanity, learn steps to improve our act and outcome, we want to grow strong.

If you think about it, how would you feel if you saw a football team without a coach, this would make no sense to us, but in life, each of us must go by – what we know best here and now.

Is that good, if we join each other lives for common understanding, what differences could we make? What different outcome could you get? – if you had CAL, a place to ask your questions?

Sometimes life takes turns we never saw coming?

What is wise to do?

What knowledge do you build your next step on?

Sometimes you do not what to involve your friends or family, sometimes you need to hear it from someone else, that someone else is here CAL. Before you make your decision know what you want.

Is it a network, where you go vocal and tell your story for others to know, your success, your victories, your challenge’s in life you what can happen and where you give each other support in life challenges,?

Is it a network, where you focus solely on skills, what skills and knowledge are required in order to solve this task or job well.

It is a network where you take your story and combine it with the knowledge, skills, and awareness that you have access to. You challenge each other for better results.

Cal is about the US, our daily life, what does life bring to us, and how do we manage. What are our dreams, goals, and outcome?

Where do you want to go?


Life takes turns, we meet many, we let go, only a few stay with us through life

CAL network is 24/7 and for you, you will never walk alone once you sign up, you will always have a place to belong. We are in CAL because we want to make a difference for all the right reasons. We want to be a good example of what can be done, I work to improve my life, that is not an easy thing, I am in no competition I want to improve myself and my doings.

I have a dream; I have goals for a great outcome for my life.

What I do, I do because within me is a dream, that I need to fulfill.


You can change it


Let’s talk about you – Tell your story – take yourself even futher

It can change your life forever


you join


Where ever you are,  where ever you are going

you can ask in the forum, whom you talk to has direct impact on your behavior

Life Coaching


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Together we are the difference, as life coach as mentor as friends our best way and performance comes from the results others create, the spirite it gives. Talent will  seek to be better, and use your skills to help others move from good to great.

Why Join CAL

To use the opportunity to discover yourself, to reach out for the journey you want and join others for which your feedback and knowledge makes a difference, most of us learn, when we are in an environment, where we all are learning, where we all are students or all teachers. We are all excellent in something, and when we use those powers and help, support each other, we express ourselves and we discover our own voice,

A coach learns when practicing, here we get to practice a lot, we seek to help each other, notice this is not for one to one coaching. We are all in CAL. Here you see the work of other coaches, you have the opportunity to hear from several other coaches, facts are, a good coaching gives result, here you will discover your own voice, understand your talent in areas, and you will get feedback you never dreamed of.

Hear your own voice and express yourself as you or as a coach.

Cal is about you finding your voice, you being vocal, you finding your right way and journey. We learn when we are interactive, a teacher is learning while teaching, a student is learning when practicing, or teaching all goes into one circle, this is also how we improve, are creative, move on, we circle, we analyze, we look and we move on, when we are ready. When we are where we want to be.

Cal is about you learning, growing, about your discovering your own talents, wisdom and opportunities.

With respect we recognize and create ways for each other to hear and give a voice to all five parts of our nature

Physically, mentally emotionally, socially, spiritually – we seek being our best

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Design your way.

Make it happen to make the difference you need in order to make it happen, only you can do, only you know what it requires to make it happen. Within coaching, we believe that each goal or outcome start with the

Congruence, you need to be congruent with what you want.

Positively stated, it must be positively formulated, you cannot not think about a pink elephant

Resourced and realistic, you must have or acquire the resources your need

Initiated and maintained by yourself, you need to ask yourself do you have what it takes

Ecological is must be positive and ecological

Evidence criteria, how will you know that you have achieved your goal or outcome

Time-phased, make a timeline that is realistic and remember a dream that has no deadline is a wish.

Coaching is about the outcome, it is about, what we value and what we want to the accomplice. Whatever you focus on, is what you get. You will properly say, that this is not true, then with within CAL ask you, if you focus on something do you not get it? yes, we all do.

The reason, why it is good to talk about outcome instead of a goal is because the outcome has the consequences involved, this is sometimes where we are not aligned or congruent with our outcome or goal think about below for a second: #Think about the following from the book – the 8th habit.( page 79):

Wealth without work

Pleasure without conscience

Knowledge without character

Commerce without morality

Science without humanity

Workship with sacrifice

Politics without principle

“A new philosophy a new way of life is not given for nothing. It has to be paid dearly for and only acquired with much patience and great effort” – by Fyodor Dostoevsky.#

We can even add a few more to the list:

Overweight without food

Strong body without excise

Alcoholic without alcohol – that is the simplest one and easy for us all to understand, the fact is that we as humans are complex and nothing is the same. Why am I not where I want to be, why do I think it needs to be different? There is something inside you that is so strong that and you have to reach out for it. Then you know, then you can make the difference to achieve your outcome. You are willing to do what it takes.

That is why it is very important to each one of us, that we know that we get what we focus on, there is a lesson here if we want to – if you do not want what you have, you need to change, you need to focus on something else, do it differently.

In all our doings in life, if we look at the feedback we get then the feedback will tell you if you are going in the right direction, where you want to be.

Coaching is a powerful tool to make learn how to make it happen, this does not mean that if you know coaching that it will happen. Only you can make it happen, and it is all your doing that will make it happen.

You will have to use your capabilities and look within you to find the motivation and enthusiasm to make it happen. You will on the journey be challenged by the most powerful person you know, yourself. You will need to take care of all the inner changes that are being challenged, supported, changed for you to go towards your new outcome, unsafe territory and on this journey, you must stay congruent. To stay congruent is to love, believe, aware and trust yourself that you have chosen and outcome that will make you an even better and that you have what it takes.

This is why we have the forum, the blog, and this is what we believe. You can do it and you can make a difference in your life. You already know it. You just have to do it.

In the different memberships, you work differently, within me-members seek, support, help each other in our lives to be who we want to and to work on our outcomes in life.

Within the my-members, we focus on the different coaching’s techniques we can use or mentor skills. We help, support each other to be good coaches that help our clients get the best out of their lives.

Within by invitation only, we use them both, we use our lives, our skills, knowledge to whom we are and the coaches we are, how do I use my person best way, we look at best practice. We challenge each other for higher levels.

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